"""
Connection router — search, request, respond, manage connections.

Security:
- Timing-safe search (50ms sleep floor)
- Per-receiver pending request cap (5 within 10 minutes)
- Atomic accept via UPDATE...WHERE status='pending' RETURNING *
- All endpoints scoped by current_user.id
- Audit logging for all connection events
"""
import asyncio
import logging
from datetime import date as date_type, datetime, timedelta

from fastapi import APIRouter, BackgroundTasks, Depends, HTTPException, Path, Query, Request
from sqlalchemy import delete, select, func, and_, update
from sqlalchemy.exc import IntegrityError
from sqlalchemy.ext.asyncio import AsyncSession
from sqlalchemy.orm import selectinload

from app.database import get_db
from app.models.connection_request import ConnectionRequest
from app.models.notification import Notification
from app.models.person import Person
from app.models.settings import Settings
from app.models.user import User
from app.models.user_connection import UserConnection
from app.routers.auth import get_current_user
from app.schemas.connection import (
    CancelResponse,
    ConnectionRequestResponse,
    ConnectionResponse,
    RespondAcceptResponse,
    RespondRejectResponse,
    RespondRequest,
    SendConnectionRequest,
    SharingOverrideUpdate,
    UmbralSearchRequest,
    UmbralSearchResponse,
)
from app.services.audit import get_client_ip, log_audit_event
from app.services.connection import (
    NOTIF_TYPE_CONNECTION_ACCEPTED,
    NOTIF_TYPE_CONNECTION_REQUEST,
    SHAREABLE_FIELDS,
    create_person_from_connection,
    detach_umbral_contact,
    extract_ntfy_config,
    resolve_shared_profile,
    send_connection_ntfy,
)
from app.services.notification import create_notification

router = APIRouter()
logger = logging.getLogger(__name__)


# ── Helpers ──────────────────────────────────────────────────────────

async def _get_settings_for_user(db: AsyncSession, user_id: int) -> Settings | None:
    result = await db.execute(select(Settings).where(Settings.user_id == user_id))
    return result.scalar_one_or_none()


def _build_request_response(
    req: ConnectionRequest,
    sender: User,
    sender_settings: Settings | None,
    receiver: User,
    receiver_settings: Settings | None,
) -> ConnectionRequestResponse:
    return ConnectionRequestResponse(
        id=req.id,
        sender_umbral_name=sender.umbral_name,
        sender_preferred_name=sender_settings.preferred_name if sender_settings else None,
        receiver_umbral_name=receiver.umbral_name,
        receiver_preferred_name=receiver_settings.preferred_name if receiver_settings else None,
        status=req.status,
        created_at=req.created_at,
    )


# ── POST /search ────────────────────────────────────────────────────

@router.post("/search", response_model=UmbralSearchResponse)
async def search_user(
    body: UmbralSearchRequest,
    db: AsyncSession = Depends(get_db),
    current_user: User = Depends(get_current_user),
):
    """
    Timing-safe user search. Always queries by umbral_name alone,
    then checks accept_connections + is_active in Python.
    Generic "not found" for non-existent, opted-out, AND inactive users.
    50ms sleep floor to eliminate timing side-channel.
    """
    # Always sleep to prevent timing attacks
    await asyncio.sleep(0.05)

    # Sender must have accept_connections enabled to search
    sender_settings = await _get_settings_for_user(db, current_user.id)
    if not sender_settings or not sender_settings.accept_connections:
        return UmbralSearchResponse(found=False)

    # Don't find yourself
    if body.umbral_name == current_user.umbral_name:
        return UmbralSearchResponse(found=False)

    result = await db.execute(
        select(User).where(User.umbral_name == body.umbral_name)
    )
    target = result.scalar_one_or_none()

    if not target or not target.is_active:
        return UmbralSearchResponse(found=False)

    # Check if they accept connections
    target_settings = await _get_settings_for_user(db, target.id)
    if not target_settings or not target_settings.accept_connections:
        return UmbralSearchResponse(found=False)

    return UmbralSearchResponse(found=True)


# ── POST /request ───────────────────────────────────────────────────

@router.post("/request", response_model=ConnectionRequestResponse, status_code=201)
async def send_connection_request(
    body: SendConnectionRequest,
    request: Request,
    background_tasks: BackgroundTasks,
    db: AsyncSession = Depends(get_db),
    current_user: User = Depends(get_current_user),
):
    """Send a connection request to another user."""
    # Resolve target
    result = await db.execute(
        select(User).where(User.umbral_name == body.umbral_name)
    )
    target = result.scalar_one_or_none()

    if not target or not target.is_active:
        raise HTTPException(status_code=404, detail="User not found")

    # Self-request guard
    if target.id == current_user.id:
        raise HTTPException(status_code=400, detail="Cannot send a connection request to yourself")

    # Sender must have accept_connections enabled to participate
    sender_settings = await _get_settings_for_user(db, current_user.id)
    if not sender_settings or not sender_settings.accept_connections:
        raise HTTPException(
            status_code=403,
            detail="You must enable 'Accept Connections' in your settings before sending requests",
        )

    # Check accept_connections on target
    target_settings = await _get_settings_for_user(db, target.id)
    if not target_settings or not target_settings.accept_connections:
        raise HTTPException(status_code=404, detail="User not found")

    # Check existing connection
    existing_conn = await db.execute(
        select(UserConnection).where(
            UserConnection.user_id == current_user.id,
            UserConnection.connected_user_id == target.id,
        )
    )
    if existing_conn.scalar_one_or_none():
        raise HTTPException(status_code=409, detail="Already connected")

    # Check pending request in either direction
    existing_req = await db.execute(
        select(ConnectionRequest).where(
            and_(
                ConnectionRequest.status == "pending",
                (
                    (ConnectionRequest.sender_id == current_user.id) & (ConnectionRequest.receiver_id == target.id)
                ) | (
                    (ConnectionRequest.sender_id == target.id) & (ConnectionRequest.receiver_id == current_user.id)
                ),
            )
        )
    )
    if existing_req.scalar_one_or_none():
        raise HTTPException(status_code=409, detail="A pending request already exists")

    # Per-receiver cap: max 5 pending requests within 10 minutes
    ten_min_ago = datetime.now() - timedelta(minutes=10)
    pending_count = await db.scalar(
        select(func.count())
        .select_from(ConnectionRequest)
        .where(
            ConnectionRequest.receiver_id == target.id,
            ConnectionRequest.status == "pending",
            ConnectionRequest.created_at >= ten_min_ago,
        )
    ) or 0
    if pending_count >= 5:
        raise HTTPException(status_code=429, detail="Too many pending requests for this user")

    # Validate person_id if provided (link existing standard contact)
    link_person_id = None
    if body.person_id is not None:
        person_result = await db.execute(
            select(Person).where(Person.id == body.person_id, Person.user_id == current_user.id)
        )
        link_person = person_result.scalar_one_or_none()
        if not link_person:
            raise HTTPException(status_code=400, detail="Person not found or not owned by you")
        if link_person.is_umbral_contact:
            raise HTTPException(status_code=400, detail="Person is already an umbral contact")
        link_person_id = body.person_id

    # Create the request (IntegrityError guard for TOCTOU race on partial unique index)
    conn_request = ConnectionRequest(
        sender_id=current_user.id,
        receiver_id=target.id,
        person_id=link_person_id,
    )
    db.add(conn_request)
    try:
        await db.flush()  # populate conn_request.id for source_id
    except IntegrityError:
        await db.rollback()
        raise HTTPException(status_code=409, detail="A pending request already exists")

    # Create in-app notification for receiver (sender_settings already fetched above)
    sender_display = (sender_settings.preferred_name if sender_settings else None) or current_user.umbral_name

    await create_notification(
        db,
        user_id=target.id,
        type=NOTIF_TYPE_CONNECTION_REQUEST,
        title="New Connection Request",
        message=f"{sender_display} wants to connect with you",
        data={"sender_umbral_name": current_user.umbral_name},
        source_type=NOTIF_TYPE_CONNECTION_REQUEST,
        source_id=conn_request.id,
    )

    await log_audit_event(
        db,
        action="connection.request_sent",
        actor_id=current_user.id,
        target_id=target.id,
        detail={"receiver_umbral_name": target.umbral_name},
        ip=get_client_ip(request),
    )

    # Extract ntfy config before commit (avoids detached SA object in background task)
    target_ntfy = extract_ntfy_config(target_settings) if target_settings else None

    # Build response BEFORE commit — commit expires all ORM objects, and accessing
    # their attributes after commit triggers lazy loads → MissingGreenlet in async SA.
    response = _build_request_response(conn_request, current_user, sender_settings, target, target_settings)

    await db.commit()

    # ntfy push in background (non-blocking)
    background_tasks.add_task(
        send_connection_ntfy,
        target_ntfy,
        sender_display,
        "request_received",
    )

    return response


# ── GET /requests/incoming ──────────────────────────────────────────

@router.get("/requests/incoming", response_model=list[ConnectionRequestResponse])
async def get_incoming_requests(
    page: int = Query(1, ge=1),
    per_page: int = Query(20, ge=1, le=100),
    db: AsyncSession = Depends(get_db),
    current_user: User = Depends(get_current_user),
):
    """List pending connection requests received by the current user."""
    offset = (page - 1) * per_page
    result = await db.execute(
        select(ConnectionRequest)
        .where(
            ConnectionRequest.receiver_id == current_user.id,
            ConnectionRequest.status == "pending",
        )
        .options(selectinload(ConnectionRequest.sender))
        .order_by(ConnectionRequest.created_at.desc())
        .offset(offset)
        .limit(per_page)
    )
    requests = result.scalars().all()

    # Fetch current user's settings once, batch-fetch sender settings
    receiver_settings = await _get_settings_for_user(db, current_user.id)
    sender_ids = [req.sender_id for req in requests]
    if sender_ids:
        settings_result = await db.execute(select(Settings).where(Settings.user_id.in_(sender_ids)))
        settings_by_user = {s.user_id: s for s in settings_result.scalars().all()}
    else:
        settings_by_user = {}

    responses = []
    for req in requests:
        sender_settings = settings_by_user.get(req.sender_id)
        responses.append(_build_request_response(req, req.sender, sender_settings, current_user, receiver_settings))

    return responses


# ── GET /requests/outgoing ──────────────────────────────────────────

@router.get("/requests/outgoing", response_model=list[ConnectionRequestResponse])
async def get_outgoing_requests(
    page: int = Query(1, ge=1),
    per_page: int = Query(20, ge=1, le=100),
    db: AsyncSession = Depends(get_db),
    current_user: User = Depends(get_current_user),
):
    """List pending connection requests sent by the current user."""
    offset = (page - 1) * per_page
    result = await db.execute(
        select(ConnectionRequest)
        .where(
            ConnectionRequest.sender_id == current_user.id,
            ConnectionRequest.status == "pending",
        )
        .options(selectinload(ConnectionRequest.receiver))
        .order_by(ConnectionRequest.created_at.desc())
        .offset(offset)
        .limit(per_page)
    )
    requests = result.scalars().all()

    # Fetch current user's settings once, batch-fetch receiver settings
    sender_settings = await _get_settings_for_user(db, current_user.id)
    receiver_ids = [req.receiver_id for req in requests]
    if receiver_ids:
        settings_result = await db.execute(select(Settings).where(Settings.user_id.in_(receiver_ids)))
        settings_by_user = {s.user_id: s for s in settings_result.scalars().all()}
    else:
        settings_by_user = {}

    responses = []
    for req in requests:
        receiver_settings = settings_by_user.get(req.receiver_id)
        responses.append(_build_request_response(req, current_user, sender_settings, req.receiver, receiver_settings))

    return responses


# ── PUT /requests/{id}/respond ──────────────────────────────────────

@router.put("/requests/{request_id}/respond", response_model=RespondAcceptResponse | RespondRejectResponse)
async def respond_to_request(
    body: RespondRequest,
    request: Request,
    background_tasks: BackgroundTasks,
    request_id: int = Path(ge=1, le=2147483647),
    db: AsyncSession = Depends(get_db),
    current_user: User = Depends(get_current_user),
):
    """Accept or reject a connection request. Atomic via UPDATE...WHERE status='pending'."""
    try:
        return await _respond_to_request_inner(body, request, background_tasks, request_id, db, current_user)
    except HTTPException:
        raise
    except Exception:
        # get_db middleware auto-rollbacks on unhandled exceptions
        logger.exception("Unhandled error in respond_to_request (request_id=%s, user=%s)", request_id, current_user.id)
        raise HTTPException(status_code=500, detail=f"Internal server error while processing connection response (request {request_id})")


async def _respond_to_request_inner(
    body: RespondRequest,
    request: Request,
    background_tasks: BackgroundTasks,
    request_id: int,
    db: AsyncSession,
    current_user: User,
) -> RespondAcceptResponse | RespondRejectResponse:
    now = datetime.now()

    # Atomic update — only succeeds if status is still 'pending' and receiver is current user
    result = await db.execute(
        update(ConnectionRequest)
        .where(
            ConnectionRequest.id == request_id,
            ConnectionRequest.receiver_id == current_user.id,
            ConnectionRequest.status == "pending",
        )
        .values(status=body.action + "ed", resolved_at=now)
        .returning(
            ConnectionRequest.id,
            ConnectionRequest.sender_id,
            ConnectionRequest.receiver_id,
            ConnectionRequest.person_id,
        )
    )
    row = result.first()
    if not row:
        raise HTTPException(status_code=409, detail="Request not found or already resolved")

    sender_id = row.sender_id
    request_person_id = row.person_id

    if body.action == "accept":
        # Verify sender is still active
        sender_result = await db.execute(select(User).where(User.id == sender_id))
        sender = sender_result.scalar_one_or_none()
        if not sender or not sender.is_active:
            # Revert to rejected
            await db.execute(
                update(ConnectionRequest)
                .where(ConnectionRequest.id == request_id)
                .values(status="rejected")
            )
            await db.commit()
            raise HTTPException(status_code=409, detail="Sender account is no longer active")

        # Get settings for both users
        sender_settings = await _get_settings_for_user(db, sender_id)
        receiver_settings = await _get_settings_for_user(db, current_user.id)

        # Resolve shared profiles for both directions
        sender_shared = resolve_shared_profile(sender, sender_settings, None) if sender_settings else {}
        receiver_shared = resolve_shared_profile(current_user, receiver_settings, None) if receiver_settings else {}

        # Create Person records for both users
        person_for_receiver = create_person_from_connection(
            current_user.id, sender, sender_settings, sender_shared
        )
        db.add(person_for_receiver)

        # Sender side: reuse existing Person if person_id was provided on the request
        person_for_sender = None
        if request_person_id:
            existing_result = await db.execute(
                select(Person).where(Person.id == request_person_id)
            )
            existing_person = existing_result.scalar_one_or_none()
            # Re-validate at accept time: ownership must match sender,
            # and must not already be umbral (prevents double-conversion races)
            if existing_person and existing_person.user_id == sender_id and not existing_person.is_umbral_contact:
                # Convert existing standard contact to umbral
                existing_person.linked_user_id = current_user.id
                existing_person.is_umbral_contact = True
                existing_person.category = "Umbral"
                # Update from shared profile
                first_name = receiver_shared.get("first_name") or receiver_shared.get("preferred_name") or current_user.umbral_name
                last_name = receiver_shared.get("last_name")
                existing_person.first_name = first_name
                existing_person.last_name = last_name
                existing_person.email = receiver_shared.get("email") or existing_person.email
                existing_person.phone = receiver_shared.get("phone") or existing_person.phone
                existing_person.mobile = receiver_shared.get("mobile") or existing_person.mobile
                existing_person.address = receiver_shared.get("address") or existing_person.address
                existing_person.company = receiver_shared.get("company") or existing_person.company
                existing_person.job_title = receiver_shared.get("job_title") or existing_person.job_title
                # Sync birthday from shared profile
                birthday_str = receiver_shared.get("birthday")
                if birthday_str:
                    try:
                        existing_person.birthday = date_type.fromisoformat(birthday_str)
                    except (ValueError, TypeError):
                        pass
                # Recompute display name
                full = ((first_name or '') + ' ' + (last_name or '')).strip()
                existing_person.name = full or current_user.umbral_name
                person_for_sender = existing_person

        if person_for_sender is None:
            person_for_sender = create_person_from_connection(
                sender_id, current_user, receiver_settings, receiver_shared
            )
            db.add(person_for_sender)

        try:
            await db.flush()  # populate person IDs
        except IntegrityError:
            await db.rollback()
            raise HTTPException(status_code=409, detail="Connection already exists")

        # Create bidirectional connections
        conn_a = UserConnection(
            user_id=current_user.id,
            connected_user_id=sender_id,
            person_id=person_for_receiver.id,
        )
        conn_b = UserConnection(
            user_id=sender_id,
            connected_user_id=current_user.id,
            person_id=person_for_sender.id,
        )
        db.add(conn_a)
        db.add(conn_b)

        try:
            await db.flush()  # populate conn_a.id for source_id
        except IntegrityError:
            await db.rollback()
            raise HTTPException(status_code=409, detail="Connection already exists")

        # Notification to sender
        receiver_display = (receiver_settings.preferred_name if receiver_settings else None) or current_user.umbral_name
        await create_notification(
            db,
            user_id=sender_id,
            type=NOTIF_TYPE_CONNECTION_ACCEPTED,
            title="Connection Accepted",
            message=f"{receiver_display} accepted your connection request",
            data={"connected_umbral_name": current_user.umbral_name},
            source_type="user_connection",
            source_id=conn_b.id,
        )

        await log_audit_event(
            db,
            action="connection.accepted",
            actor_id=current_user.id,
            target_id=sender_id,
            detail={"request_id": request_id},
            ip=get_client_ip(request),
        )

        # Extract ntfy config before commit (avoids detached SA object in background task)
        sender_ntfy = extract_ntfy_config(sender_settings) if sender_settings else None

        try:
            await db.commit()
        except IntegrityError:
            await db.rollback()
            raise HTTPException(status_code=409, detail="Connection already exists")

        # ntfy push in background
        background_tasks.add_task(
            send_connection_ntfy,
            sender_ntfy,
            receiver_display,
            "request_accepted",
        )

        return {"message": "Connection accepted", "connection_id": conn_a.id}

    else:
        # Reject — only create notification for receiver (not sender per plan)
        await log_audit_event(
            db,
            action="connection.rejected",
            actor_id=current_user.id,
            target_id=sender_id,
            detail={"request_id": request_id},
            ip=get_client_ip(request),
        )
        await db.commit()
        return {"message": "Connection request rejected"}


# ── PUT /requests/{id}/cancel ──────────────────────────────────────

@router.put("/requests/{request_id}/cancel", response_model=CancelResponse)
async def cancel_request(
    request: Request,
    request_id: int = Path(ge=1, le=2147483647),
    db: AsyncSession = Depends(get_db),
    current_user: User = Depends(get_current_user),
):
    """Cancel an outgoing connection request. Atomic via UPDATE...WHERE status='pending'."""
    now = datetime.now()

    # Atomic update — only succeeds if sender is current user and status is still pending
    result = await db.execute(
        update(ConnectionRequest)
        .where(
            ConnectionRequest.id == request_id,
            ConnectionRequest.sender_id == current_user.id,
            ConnectionRequest.status == "pending",
        )
        .values(status="cancelled", resolved_at=now)
        .returning(ConnectionRequest.id, ConnectionRequest.receiver_id)
    )
    row = result.first()
    if not row:
        raise HTTPException(status_code=409, detail="Request not found or already resolved")

    receiver_id = row.receiver_id

    # Silent cleanup: remove the notification sent to the receiver
    await db.execute(
        delete(Notification).where(
            Notification.source_type == "connection_request",
            Notification.source_id == request_id,
            Notification.user_id == receiver_id,
        )
    )

    # Look up receiver umbral_name for audit detail
    receiver_result = await db.execute(select(User.umbral_name).where(User.id == receiver_id))
    receiver_umbral_name = receiver_result.scalar_one_or_none() or "unknown"

    await log_audit_event(
        db,
        action="connection.request_cancelled",
        actor_id=current_user.id,
        target_id=receiver_id,
        detail={"request_id": request_id, "receiver_umbral_name": receiver_umbral_name},
        ip=get_client_ip(request),
    )

    await db.commit()
    return {"message": "Connection request cancelled"}


# ── GET / ───────────────────────────────────────────────────────────

@router.get("/", response_model=list[ConnectionResponse])
async def list_connections(
    page: int = Query(1, ge=1),
    per_page: int = Query(50, ge=1, le=100),
    db: AsyncSession = Depends(get_db),
    current_user: User = Depends(get_current_user),
):
    """List all connections for the current user."""
    offset = (page - 1) * per_page
    result = await db.execute(
        select(UserConnection)
        .where(UserConnection.user_id == current_user.id)
        .options(selectinload(UserConnection.connected_user))
        .order_by(UserConnection.created_at.desc())
        .offset(offset)
        .limit(per_page)
    )
    connections = result.scalars().all()

    # Batch-fetch settings for connected users
    connected_ids = [conn.connected_user_id for conn in connections]
    if connected_ids:
        settings_result = await db.execute(select(Settings).where(Settings.user_id.in_(connected_ids)))
        settings_by_user = {s.user_id: s for s in settings_result.scalars().all()}
    else:
        settings_by_user = {}

    responses = []
    for conn in connections:
        conn_settings = settings_by_user.get(conn.connected_user_id)
        responses.append(ConnectionResponse(
            id=conn.id,
            connected_user_id=conn.connected_user_id,
            connected_umbral_name=conn.connected_user.umbral_name,
            connected_preferred_name=conn_settings.preferred_name if conn_settings else None,
            person_id=conn.person_id,
            created_at=conn.created_at,
        ))

    return responses


# ── GET /{id} ───────────────────────────────────────────────────────

@router.get("/{connection_id}", response_model=ConnectionResponse)
async def get_connection(
    connection_id: int = Path(ge=1, le=2147483647),
    db: AsyncSession = Depends(get_db),
    current_user: User = Depends(get_current_user),
):
    """Get a single connection detail."""
    result = await db.execute(
        select(UserConnection)
        .where(
            UserConnection.id == connection_id,
            UserConnection.user_id == current_user.id,
        )
        .options(selectinload(UserConnection.connected_user))
    )
    conn = result.scalar_one_or_none()
    if not conn:
        raise HTTPException(status_code=404, detail="Connection not found")

    conn_settings = await _get_settings_for_user(db, conn.connected_user_id)
    return ConnectionResponse(
        id=conn.id,
        connected_user_id=conn.connected_user_id,
        connected_umbral_name=conn.connected_user.umbral_name,
        connected_preferred_name=conn_settings.preferred_name if conn_settings else None,
        person_id=conn.person_id,
        created_at=conn.created_at,
    )


# ── GET /{id}/shared-profile ────────────────────────────────────────

@router.get("/{connection_id}/shared-profile")
async def get_shared_profile(
    connection_id: int = Path(ge=1, le=2147483647),
    db: AsyncSession = Depends(get_db),
    current_user: User = Depends(get_current_user),
):
    """Get the resolved shared profile for a connection."""
    result = await db.execute(
        select(UserConnection)
        .where(
            UserConnection.id == connection_id,
            UserConnection.user_id == current_user.id,
        )
        .options(selectinload(UserConnection.connected_user))
    )
    conn = result.scalar_one_or_none()
    if not conn:
        raise HTTPException(status_code=404, detail="Connection not found")

    conn_settings = await _get_settings_for_user(db, conn.connected_user_id)
    if not conn_settings:
        return {}

    return resolve_shared_profile(
        conn.connected_user,
        conn_settings,
        conn.sharing_overrides,
    )


# ── PUT /{id}/sharing-overrides ─────────────────────────────────────

@router.put("/{connection_id}/sharing-overrides")
async def update_sharing_overrides(
    body: SharingOverrideUpdate,
    connection_id: int = Path(ge=1, le=2147483647),
    db: AsyncSession = Depends(get_db),
    current_user: User = Depends(get_current_user),
):
    """Update what YOU share with a specific connection."""
    # Get our connection to know who the counterpart is
    our_conn = await db.execute(
        select(UserConnection).where(
            UserConnection.id == connection_id,
            UserConnection.user_id == current_user.id,
        )
    )
    conn = our_conn.scalar_one_or_none()
    if not conn:
        raise HTTPException(status_code=404, detail="Connection not found")

    # Find the reverse connection (their row pointing to us)
    reverse_result = await db.execute(
        select(UserConnection).where(
            UserConnection.user_id == conn.connected_user_id,
            UserConnection.connected_user_id == current_user.id,
        )
    )
    reverse_conn = reverse_result.scalar_one_or_none()
    if not reverse_conn:
        raise HTTPException(status_code=404, detail="Reverse connection not found")

    # Merge validated overrides — only SHAREABLE_FIELDS keys
    existing = dict(reverse_conn.sharing_overrides or {})
    update_data = body.model_dump(exclude_unset=True)
    for key, value in update_data.items():
        if key in SHAREABLE_FIELDS:
            if value is None:
                existing.pop(key, None)
            else:
                existing[key] = value

    reverse_conn.sharing_overrides = existing if existing else None

    await db.commit()
    return {"message": "Sharing overrides updated"}


# ── DELETE /{id} ────────────────────────────────────────────────────

@router.delete("/{connection_id}", status_code=204)
async def remove_connection(
    request: Request,
    connection_id: int = Path(ge=1, le=2147483647),
    db: AsyncSession = Depends(get_db),
    current_user: User = Depends(get_current_user),
):
    """
    Remove a connection. Removes BOTH UserConnection rows.
    Detaches BOTH Person records (sets linked_user_id=null, is_umbral_contact=false).
    Silent — no notification sent.
    """
    # Get our connection
    result = await db.execute(
        select(UserConnection)
        .where(
            UserConnection.id == connection_id,
            UserConnection.user_id == current_user.id,
        )
    )
    conn = result.scalar_one_or_none()
    if not conn:
        raise HTTPException(status_code=404, detail="Connection not found")

    counterpart_id = conn.connected_user_id

    # Find reverse connection
    reverse_result = await db.execute(
        select(UserConnection).where(
            UserConnection.user_id == counterpart_id,
            UserConnection.connected_user_id == current_user.id,
        )
    )
    reverse_conn = reverse_result.scalar_one_or_none()

    # Detach Person records
    if conn.person_id:
        person_result = await db.execute(select(Person).where(Person.id == conn.person_id))
        person = person_result.scalar_one_or_none()
        if person:
            await detach_umbral_contact(person)

    if reverse_conn and reverse_conn.person_id:
        person_result = await db.execute(select(Person).where(Person.id == reverse_conn.person_id))
        person = person_result.scalar_one_or_none()
        if person:
            await detach_umbral_contact(person)

    # Delete both connections
    await db.delete(conn)
    if reverse_conn:
        await db.delete(reverse_conn)

    await log_audit_event(
        db,
        action="connection.removed",
        actor_id=current_user.id,
        target_id=counterpart_id,
        detail={"connection_id": connection_id},
        ip=get_client_ip(request),
    )

    await db.commit()
    return None